1. I need to satisfy both the desire to dominate and the desire to submit to feel content

2. My insatiable emptiness and endless anxiety stem from not having a partner who can perfectly own and control me

3. During play, I want my partner to roughly overpower me with a scary and dangerous demeanor

4. My teasing is an expression of wanting to be scolded, with a highly erotic meaning

5. During play, I enjoy being spanked as a form of punishment the most

6. I find joy in following my partner's instructions and commands, learning the words and actions they enjoy

7. I generally feel sexual pleasure when obeying my partner's instructions and commands

8. I like hearing sexually shameful and obscene talk during play